For women, please ponder?

ok, so, we all have insecurities right? but don't you think that it is generally more acceptable for a women to voice them within the relationship than men? i am very open with everything else except for my insecurities. these include trite jealousy, fear of rejection, fear of inadequacy (all of these are unfounded when i think long and hard about them and would probably exist within any relationship that i may be in at this time). obviously i have some work to do with my self esteem and this is why i don't involve her. your thoughts?